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Custody, Child Support and Co-Parenting Apps


BLOG Post for May 1, 2019

Parenting children is a tough task. When adding the emotional baggage that divorce or separation can bring, continued communication between parents for the child’s sake can seem impossible.  Thankfully, online and smartphone app stores offer tools to help parents who are faced with difficult issues that arise from a divorce or separation, including paying and receiving child support, parenting visitation, and general communication. Some of these apps are free while others come at a monthly or one-time cost.
Below are some of the most popular apps found on your smartphone or on the web.

Alimentor 1 & 2- Child Custody Log
Cost: Free 30-day trial/ $1.99 or $2.99 (premium)
Rating: 4.8/5
Platform:  iOS
Alimentor is a custody tool for divorced or separated parents to determine

The 5 types of Spousal Support in New Jersey


The 5 types of Spousal Support in New Jersey

Did you know that New Jersey has five types of spousal support (alimony)? Be sure to consult with your attorney to decide on the one that is best for you and your family.

  • REHABILITATIVE ALIMONY is a short-term monetary award that allows a spouse to go back to school or obtain training to re-enter the workforce.
  • LIMITED DURATION ALIMONY is paid for a set duration of time and is based upon the idea that the supported spouse will use this time to seek job training, education, and ultimately secure gainful employment and financial independence.
  • OPEN DURATION ALIMONY is awarded until such time that the supported party remarries or passes away, and is not dependent on that party securing financial independence. However, open duration alimony can only be awarded for marriages which last longer than 20 years, unless there are exceptional circumstances.

High Conflict divorce and school counseling


School Counselors and Divorce

How to get aid in helping children stuck between high-conflict divorcing parents and school.

Behavioral and emotional problems in children are often seen in high-conflict divorce situations. Children with intense conflict are stressed and deal with anxiety in many ways. They feel insecure and afraid. Insecurity can cause growth and developmental issues within. The behavior signs can be shame and guilt, anger and aggression or withdrawing from teachers and friends. Signs are often seen in grades and social habits— on the playground and overall performance. Many children withdraw and/or get angry. School counselors are there to help children with family matters when it affects their behavior in school.

There are various signs a student may exhibit who is having difficulty with a divorce at home. Trained school counselors can watch for parents who tell the children false information or use the children as

Moving a Child Out of State in New Jersey


New Jersey law prohibits a parent of a child who is divorced or separated from  removing a child who is a living in New Jersey, or who has resided in the state for five or more years, without the consent of the noncustodial parent or a Court Order.

When is Moving a Child out of State Allowed?

If the non-custodial parent will not agree to the move, then the custodial parent needs to apply to the Superior Court for an Order to permit removing the child from the state. The parent with custody must prove in good faith the reason for the move and that moving will not hurt the child or the relationship with the other parent. If the non-custodial parent disagrees, The Court will decide whether to permit the removal by the following factors:

  • The custodial parent’s reasons moving the child/children.
  • The objection to the move and reasons why they should not move.
  • The past history of both parent’s behavior.

Did you know that child emancipation in New Jersey takes place at age 19, not 18?


When is a child emancipated?
Recent New Jersey legislation has moved the emancipation age up form 18 years old to 19 years old. This is the age when child support may end. However specific instances will require the continued support of the child by the parents, such as full-time college, a disability, or a court order. However, a parent may request a continuation of child support up to age 23.

The 2017 NJ child support emancipation laws provide that a child support obligation ends when a child marries, dies, enters military service, or reaches age 19; however, a parent of a child approaching the age of emancipation in NJ may request that the obligor continue to pay child support beyond that age. A child support obligation may be continued beyond the child’s 19th birthday if any of the following apply:

• A court order specifies another age for terminating child support but not beyond the child’s 23rd birthday.

Telling your Children about You Getting a Divorce


Children need to talk about what is happening in your life and in theirs when it comes to divorce. Research says that most families talk about this life changing event in only 10 minutes or less. It is your choice to make the time to help your children cope. After all, you are the parents.

Have a plan before you tell them.
In most cases it is best to tell children approximately 2-4 weeks prior to separation.

• Tell them together. It is best to be a team and talk about things without harsh 
emotions in the way. Talk to them at home where they can be themselves and not worry about outside surroundings.

• Talk with the school so they are aware of what is happening at home.

• When parents talk to the children make sure you cover a few basics:
       - This is not your fault. Mom and Dad have been unhappy for a long while. 

          This is our decision and we both lo

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What to do if your Ex isn’t Working Enough to Help You with Child Support

If one of the parents is voluntarily unemployed or not working as they should, the court will assign them the income to reflect the party’s earning potential in his or her profession. How do the courts calculate these potential earnings? Sometimes the court will impute an average income based on the parent’s current or former profession. Based on all the facts, the numbers can change and only your Lawyer and the courts can help you determine what is fair.

Try using this simple calculator located on the page

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What is "Domestic Violence"?

The National Domestic Violence Hotline ( defines domestic violence as "a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner." In other words, domestic violence is "a pattern of coercive behaviors that one person exercises over another."

If you are in a relationship or situation that feels abusive, it is important that you seek help and know the resources available to help you and your children.

There are several types of abuse.

Emotional Abuse- If your partner does any of the below, you may be in an emotionally abusiv

Clean Out Your Legal Closet in the New Year


As the year turns over, it is time to take stock of many things; new year resolutions, cleaning out the actual closet, and gathering documents for your 2018 federal and state tax returns. There are also legal issues that everyone should consider to ensure they are properly protected along with their children. Two of the most common is ensuring your will is properly updated and reflects your current living situation, is reflective of any tax changes under the IRS code, and encompasses all parts of your estate (assets and property). Far too many people wait until they are in the midst of a health scare before thinking about what options exist or what kind of care they or their loves ones would want. A recent survey found that 90% of Americans believe end of life discussions are very important to have with their loved ones. However, only 30% actually have had these discussions with family.

Another item that is commonly overlooked is updating your child support payments to ensur

The Frightening Side of Being the Target of A Child Abuse Investigation


Sadly, many times a parent or adult finds themselves on the wrong end of a child abuse allegation. Under New Jersey State and federal law, any allegations of child abuse, regardless of how remote or unlikely, must be investigated by the relevant agency or jurisdiction. In New Jersey, investigating allegations of child abuse falls to the Department of Child Protection and Permanency (DCP & P), formerly called DYFS, is responsible for investigating any and all allegations of child abuse in New Jersey.

An institutional abuse Investigative Unit (IAIU) team will be dispatched to the home or hospital where the child is located. They are not required to notify you in advance of their arrival. They do not need a warrant to enter your home once an abuse allegation has been filed. Once there, they will perform interviews with all involved parties, including doctors, nurses, parents, and any other witnesses to the alleged abuse.

Typical investigations are generally required